Snapshots from Ventura and Oxnard
22 Mar 2013
Thank you all so much for your kind words on yesterday’s post. They worked miracles, since I woke up today feeling pretty great! Now I have the energy to show you the highlight reel from our trip last weekend.
We really loved Ventura and Oxnard. They are about an hour west of us, on the Pacific coast and an hour south of Santa Barbara. The area reminded us a bit of its larger neighbor, but we honestly liked Ventura and Oxnard a lot better. They were more walkable, less touristy, and had far more local shops and businesses (always a plus!). We checked the weather forecast before we left on Friday: highs in the 70s, lows in the 50s. Haunted by our memories of being too hot in Newport Beach last year, we brought short sleeves and bathing suits. We kind of selectively ignored that 50s part. As we were almost in to Ventura, a huge wall of fog rolled in, Bay area style. It was exhilaratingly comfortable and familiar for me, but as we considered the contents of our suitcases, we looked at each other and said, just as GOB Bluth did, “I’ve made a huge mistake.” It was not as cold as we feared, but we did definitely get a lot of wear out of our sweaters! There was a St. Patrick’s Day parade on Main Street, right outside our B&B, and I was struck by how much the landscape looked like Oakland and Berkeley: rolling hills, stately homes, fog, fog, fog. And a bonus dog with a red beard.
Super glad I threw this sweater in the car!
After we were paraded out, we set out exploring. A bookstore! Naturally, I had to pose by their sign.
There was an angel shop in town where people left their prayers on post-it notes. An Impressive array.
We also hit up a local refill shop, where you can bring in empty bottles and stock up on shampoo, bath soap, laundry detergent, lotion, and a ton of other household things. The best part is that you can choose your own fragrance, and they have so many to choose from. I got some pomegranate bamboo bubble bath, and it smelled like heaven. Speaking of reusing and recycling things, I must also note that Ventura is *chock full* of thrift stores with amazing selection and even better prices. I could not believe my eyes! Thrifty ladies, this town is for you!
One thing that’s always really special to us is getting the chance to attend mass at the beautiful old missions of California. This one is from 1782, and it was jam packed.
The gardens outside were so serene and welcoming.
And this charming sign greeted us across the street.
We went down to Oxnard to catch the Sunday farmer’s market, and oh. my. goodness. I have never seen such gigantic stalks of chard, such clean and crisp lettuce, so many mountains of strawberries! I was in heaven. I’d gladly fly there by helicopter every weekend to stock up.
After we loaded up the car, we headed across the street to the beach. Out of all the beaches I’ve ever been to, I think this is my favorite. It was so quiet and peaceful there, not a person in sight, and the sand was so soft and warm. I think that we’ll come back here next time we want to have a beach day. So much nicer than Venice Beach! Also, I totally bought that shirt at a secondhand store to supplement my wardrobe!
On our way out of town, we stopped by the Channel Islands National Park to visit the starfish and sea anemones.
…And we left our mark in the sand. Such a beautiful weekend!

Mar 22, 2013 @ 05:50:18
It looks like a great place to visit. I love meandering farmer’s markets and browsing. Lucky you to find thrift stores AND a book store. The post it notes for prayers is very impressive!!
Mar 24, 2013 @ 21:49:40
Thank you! We had sucha great time! It’s good for the soul, I think, to see a new place every now and again, even if it’s only a few miles from home!
Mar 22, 2013 @ 08:36:59
I really love the sight of your bare footprints in the wet sand, but I can’t look at you sitting on the curb without smiling. It looks like you were having a wonderful time.
Mar 24, 2013 @ 21:50:23
Thank you! It’s funny, I almost didn’t include that picture of me on the curb because I thought, “Eh, it’s just a picture of me on the curb.” So I am extra glad you liked it!
Mar 23, 2013 @ 00:14:35
I love the idea of a refill shop! That bubble bath must be amazing, I am a sucker for girly smelly goodies!:) What a fun trip!
Mar 24, 2013 @ 21:53:11
Oh, I love it! We bought a 2 oz bottle because then we can take it on planes, but now I sort of wish we’d bought more!
Mar 23, 2013 @ 05:03:28
What a great time and great photos! And when I scrolled down to the one of you sitting on the curb, all I could think of was what a beautiful smile. You’ve always had such a pretty smile but knowing who you are smiling at in this photo, I must say that Eric certainly brings out the best in your smile.
Mar 24, 2013 @ 21:59:01
Thank you so much! That is most definitely true–I don’t think I’ve ever smiled more in my life! We were talking this weekend about how this summer we will celebrate five years together. I am sure you feel the same way about mom, but I just can’t imagine my life without him. Feeling very grateful over here!
Mar 25, 2013 @ 17:33:37
I love all of your outfits in these pictures; I think the bright yellow works so well with the purple (and you match the Calico Cat!) and I really like the thrift store purchase, too! It sounds like you guys had a great time…I would love to take a road trip south… 🙂
Mar 26, 2013 @ 22:30:41
Thank you so much! It was sort of a random combination–a few months ago I got tired of not having any long-sleeved shirts, so I bought about 8 of them, and this just happened to be the one I packed. But thanks for the kudos! Ventura was just great, a nice respite from the giant outdoor mall feel of Santa Barbara (although Santa Barbara has its charms as well!) 🙂